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The Secret of Attracting Girls
The universe works on the law of attraction, the sun attracts the earth, the earth the moon, the moon the tides. In our smaller universe we want to concentrate on attracting females, not chasing them. The chase can be fun (and sometimes necessary), but getting them to seek you out is much more efficient and fulfilling.
There’s a fine line between being odd (or off) and being different and interesting. We’re going to shoot for interesting and unusual, we don’t want to cause conflicts, but we don’t want to blend into the wood work either. We want to be a leader… not a follower. A trailblazer… not a trail follower.
It’s not always easy setting off on your own, exploring new territory, wondering what’s around the next bend, much easier to follow the road map right. Well sure, if you want to sit home and surf porn all the time, but wouldn’t you rather touch some real flesh, connect with a hot babe, rather than just fantasying all the time.
What you want to do is find something unique about yourself, then concentrate on that thing and enhance it. I can’t specifically tell you how to be unique, we are all unique in our own ways, but what sets you apart. Can you do magic tricks, juggle fire, tell a great story, ride a motorcycle, do mixed martial arts. Find what you excel at, and then become even one step better.
When you accomplish this, you’ll find your confidence increases and with that confidence, you become more attractive to girls.